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Anne Goodwin’s drive to understand what makes people tick led to a career in clinical psychology. That same curiosity now powers her fiction.
A prize-winning short-story writer, she has published three novels and a short story collection with small independent press, Inspired Quill. Her debut novel, Sugar and Snails, was shortlisted for the 2016 Polari First Book Prize.
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Quirky women on the attachments that formed them: Lillian on Life and The Rise and Fall of Great Powers

26/4/2015

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Novels of character often address the question of how our experiences define us. In The Lives of Women, Elaine was shaped by the tragedy that brought her childhood to an abrupt end. Lillian, another middle-aged woman subjecting her life to an unflinching review, sees herself through a succession of lovers and, to a lesser extent, her parents’ marriage and the constraints or otherwise of social class. Living through the postwar decades of change in Missouri, Munich, Paris, London and New York, Lillian presents at first as witty and unconventional, as bold and independent as a single woman can be in a world where the apotheosis of achievement is to work as PA to the (male) head of the organisation (and never mind too much about what the business of that organisation might be).

In her late 50s, Lillian refuses to be held back by the embarrassments of her ageing body; all she needs is a pot of KY Jelly strategically placed at the bedside and she can continue to welcome her married lover into her home. She might have been a late starter sexually, but she soon caught up, learning how to adapt herself to a man’s desires, “pretending not to notice … [being] the key to so much” (p142). Even as she acknowledges her disappointments, she has no room for self-pity (p152):

loved how unconventionally I lived, I think. But I wanted to get married and have children. That had been the plan. Lovers and wine, cigarettes and skinny black clothes – those were the detritus on the rings circling the planet of my dreams. I was in orbit and I couldn’t find my way across the void.

Even as she relates how she spent a fortune crying to her therapist, she can’t do so without humour:

Alma smoked while I talked and cried. It’s a shame shrinks can’t smoke in their own offices anymore. The smoke looked like her thoughts. Shrinks who just listen make me nervous

(evoking a smile of recognition in me as I recalled the psychoanalytic papers I studied in which the client’s response to the therapist’s smoking becomes embedded in the analysis).

Lillian on Life is a deceptively light novel composed of a series of short chapters, headed with aphorisms (which turned out not to be irritating in the way I feared they might), about the lifelong process of leaving home (p48):

When we’re young we’re unfit to judge whether our parents know what they’re talking about. Sometimes we want them to be right, sometimes we want them to be dead wrong, but we can’t tell which they are actually being. If we could figure out which instinct guided them, the terrain would be much easier to navigate. I couldn’t tell if Mother was speaking from the instinct to protect me, or the instinct to protect herself. It was gruesome.

What starts as a book about a woman living the high life becomes, like Academy Street, about fortitude in the face of continued abandonment. In a surprising way – or perhaps not, given that I’m finding parallels in the most unlikely places at the moment – Lillian reminds me of Diana in my own novel, Sugar and Snails. Although that might be down to her companionable cat and her use of KY Jelly!

Thank you, John Murray books, for my review copy.

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On the surface, Tooly Zylberberg’s life is the kind readers and writers would envy. At thirty-one, she spends her days lounging around with a book in her hand or tramping across the Welsh moors. It doesn’t seem to matter too much that the bookshop she owns doesn’t make any money and the locals find her somewhat odd. And, with her upbringing, how could she not be, uprooted every year or so by the eccentric adults who care for her, after a fashion, none of whom she addresses as Mum or Dad.

The novel zigzags back and forth across time and continents to gradually reveal the circumstances of her upbringing, and the terrible betrayal that underpins it all. The twenty-odd years of her travels encompass the rise and rise of the Internet (with amusing cameos of thinly-disguised dot-com start-ups everyone expects to come to nothing) while the characters discuss the historic and contemporary falls of national powers from Rwanda to Greece. Every minor character has a more embellished biography (whether true or not) than Tooly is given, at least until her story unfolds, which is partly the point: all her life she’s had to mould herself into the shape that others have defined for her, never checking to see whether it’s the right fit. The Great Powers of the title are, to my reading, the parental figures on whose capriciousness the girl so desperately depends.

We all need to leave our parents behind to forge our own independent identity but for those of us, like Tooly, with a background of insecure attachment it’s a particularly arduous route. And that was my problem with Tooly; lovely as she is as a character, no matter how endearingly quirky, she isn’t as disturbed by her chaotic upbringing as I’d expect her to be. The plaudits from the reviews of the hardback publication suggest that other readers were able to accept the humour in the situation without fretting as much as I did about the damage wrought by adults who put their own selfish desires above the responsibilities of caring for a child.

Thanks to Sceptre books for my review copy.


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Charli Mills
25/4/2015 03:11:09 pm

I like how you are able to connect to divergent book through their quirky characters. Sometimes, reading such reviews, I wonder if the preference to write about characters and their life reflections is greater than telling a story that leads to reflection. The writer in me wonders.

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Annecdotist
27/4/2015 03:37:06 am

Character versus plot? Interesting thought – I feel I prefer a balance between the two but sometimes the character's journey through their life IS the plot. Good to wonder!

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Norah Colvin link
25/4/2015 05:35:49 pm

Well, Anne, you do review books with quite a variety of storylines and characters, though I must say that I think you have rather a penchant for quirky characters. Maybe that is why many of the books you review appeal to me, and why I am so looking forward to reading your own. Stories of characters that never quite fitted in anywhere, who always felt alone and different have always appealed to me, like the characters of Patrick White's superb novels. Perhaps it is the human condition: we are born alone and die alone, and in between we try to make connections and sense of our existence which is greatly influenced by those around us, especially our parents, at least in the early years. More food for thought, as Charli says.

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Annecdotist
27/4/2015 03:42:25 am

And more food for thought in your comment – thanks, Norah! I wonder if sometimes that need to ward off the loneliness by making connections can lead to the wrong kind of connections, that pull us out of shape – I think that was how it was for Tooly in TRAFOGP and probably for Diana in Sugar and Snails.
And one of my favourite parts of getting older is the increasing capacity to embrace my own quirkiness!

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sarah
3/5/2015 10:25:31 am

Not sure I'd be able to read about a traumatic childhood, if it's in great detail, but do love the idea of the quirky women in these. Especially if they're "endearingly quirky". :-)

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Annecdotist
3/5/2015 11:05:51 am

Oh, dear, Sarah, you might not be able to read my novel, then!! But I don't think there's gratuitous trauma in any of these, it's just how – sadly – some people's lives happen to be.

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