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I started this blog in 2013 to share my reflections on reading, writing and psychology, along with my journey to become a published novelist.​  I soon graduated to about twenty book reviews a month and a weekly 99-word story. Ten years later, I've transferred my writing / publication updates to my new website but will continue here with occasional reviews and flash fiction pieces, and maybe the odd personal post.

ANNE GOODWIN'S WRITING NEWS

An adopted child goes missing …

6/4/2017

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Do take a moment to read about these two different, but equally engaging, novels in which a child, adopted as a baby, goes missing.

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Slowly, struggling to put one word after the other, you bring your dead son back to life, restoring him to the world. Using words, you sketch the way he moved, his eyes and the light inside them, the soft colour of his skin. You’d never realised how long, how unending his death would be. Never before have you been his mother as much as you are now, when he is no longer here, and you are blowing life back into his lost body. You have never been so close.

Two women’s lives are shattered by the sudden death of a fourteen-year-old boy. Hannah, an idealistic drama teacher, tries to heal herself battling the extremes of winter chills and summer heat on a smallholding in rural Bulgaria. When she welcomes the older woman into her home as a volunteer, she is unaware that the quiet psychiatrist is the mother of the awkward boy who she tried and failed to protect from a coterie of bullies. But the reader knows, as we’ve been following Kito’s mother’s story since the beginning, from when she and her husband, Mark, adopted a baby from abroad, to the day he failed to return from school, to the year he should have turned eighteen when she sets out to extract revenge from the woman she believes is responsible for his death.

I loved the voice of Kito’s mother. I loved that, like Kevin’s mother in
Lionel Shriver’s acclaimed novel, she’s highly ambivalent about mothering and doesn’t do it very well. I loved how the two women both echo and contrast each other’s qualities. For example they’re polar opposites in terms of their belief in their own power to help: while, despite her inability to command basic discipline, Hannah is overconfident that Shakespeare can civilise a bunch of adolescents and rescue the class scapegoat from both the mob and his own inhibitions, his mother has adopted a noninterventionist strategy (except when she clumsily doesn’t, insisting he has a birthday party to which no-one comes), hoping he’ll be fortified by finding his own solutions.

Kito’s mother is similarly low-key in her attitude to her work as a psychiatrist who practices therapy. (I couldn’t decipher what kind, but it was mentioned enough to earn her the accolade of
fictional psychotherapist – the twenty-eighth in my series.) She works in mental health because she wasn’t quite good enough to get a job in a more prestigious specialty, just as Hannah drifted into teaching because her acting skills weren’t up to scratch. Even so, I couldn’t quite make up my mind if she was appropriately realistic or inappropriately disengaged (p64):

I was good at my job, but I wasn’t the understanding friend my patients liked to see in me. Their weakness often repulsed me. Their inability to keep their emotions in check and their capacity to abandon themselves to their grief struck me as a lack of character. I didn’t understand how they could let themselves go like that.


Translated from the Dutch by Sarah Welling, and published by Hope Road (who provided my review copy), The Boy is a beautifully written and poignant novel about adoption, motherhood, racism, adolescence, and the perils of misplaced heroics within helping relationships. For another novel on bullying, see
Bone by Bone by Sanjida Kay, who just happens to have written a novel about adoption too.


When Zoe and Ollie take their baby home from the hospital, they are as besotted and bewildered as any first-time parents. But there’s an extra layer of anxiety for this couple, as their adopted daughter, Evie, has spent her first few weeks battling the effects of the drugs to which her birth mother was addicted.

Seven years on, the family has relocated to Yorkshire, with a surprise addition in two-year-old Ben, conceived naturally against the odds. Ollie’s pressured job as an accountant has bought them a comfortable house with a view of the moors, which inspire Zoe’s work as a visual artist. Life is good, despite the tensions, as Zoe resents Ollie’s long hours at work leaving her to juggle the demands of two young children with her creative ambition. It’s also unclear how much Evie has been damaged by her birth mother’s drugs. With her darker skin and elfin features, she is increasingly curious about her origins, and jealous of the attention her little brother receives.
Zoe feels similarly deprived of attention, such that when she meets Harris, another artist who seems to intuitively understand her, she doesn’t hesitate to make time in her busy schedule to meet up with him for coffee, walks on the moor and the possibility of more. So she’s a little distracted when she discovers that Evie has hidden letters and gifts from someone who claims to be her real daddy, communications that make her feel special and loved.

So
the pins are lined up for a real page turner when Evie disappears. Who has abducted her and will she be found before any damage is done? The finger of suspicion gravitates from one character to another (without the overloading of possibilities that can, in less skilled hands, make this reader lose track), with Zoe’s – and the reader’s – assumptions challenged by the options overlooked. I’m impressed how the author has engineered this narrative tension without compromising on character depth. You don’t need to be a parent to be moved by the narrator’s guilt and fear. It’s also a convincing portrait of how ordinary life does and doesn’t carry on at the heart of any kind of crisis, with a toddler and a dog still needed to be fed and entertained, and how their separate griefs widens the gap between husband and wife.

With a complimentary copy from the publisher, Corvus, and a generous
endorsement from the author of my own forthcoming psychological suspense novel, I was primed to like this book. But it’s no exaggeration to say that Sanjida Kay has nailed the literary thriller genre with The Stolen Child. It succeeds as both a twisty-turny thriller and psychologically astute examination of a family under extreme stress. There was an added bonus for me in the setting on the edge of Ilkley Moor, where I’ve had some wonderful walks. If you like fiction that adds an extra layer of tension, or two, to the challenges of mothering, you might also enjoy her first published thriller, Bone by Bone.
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Norah Colvin link
7/4/2017 12:54:00 am

These books sound interesting Anne. The issues in both sound complex and your reviews indicate that the complexity of the situation and the relationships has been handled well in both. I'm rather intrigued by The Stolen Child and would probably read it first, time permitting. I always enjoy knowing about what's out there, even if I don't get time to read myself. So thank you for your reviews.

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Norah Colvin link
7/4/2017 01:11:18 am

Actually have just downloaded the audiobook. :)

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Annecdotist
8/4/2017 03:07:49 pm

Hurrah! I hope you enjoy it – not sure my recommendations always work out so well for you!

Norah Colvin link
18/5/2017 11:51:35 am

Hi Anne, I have just finished "The Stolen Child" and thoroughly enjoyed it. Thank you for the recommendation. It definitely was a page turner (or would have been had I been reading rather than listening). There were a few (very) little things that bothered me, but not sufficiently to detract from the enjoyment of the story. It was certainly a complex plot with well-developed characters. And - who would have thought?

Annecdotist
18/5/2017 12:18:15 pm

Glad you liked it, Norah, aren’t you going to say what interfered with your enjoyment?

Derbhile Graham link
7/4/2017 09:00:06 am

I love the way you review books with such strong emotional content. These interior narratives, grounded in reality, don't seem to be fashionable in literature these days, but these are the stories that endure.

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Annecdotist
8/4/2017 03:09:45 pm

Thanks, Derbhile, but interesting that you say they are not fashionable – but I find it’s often the case books I rave about don’t tend to do so well in the popularity stakes!

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Charli Mills
7/4/2017 10:20:05 pm

As a parent, I used to think a worse thing than death was to have a child go missing. That would drive me mad. Yet, in both these novels we see complex reactions to the stress of death or disappearance to drive the story and characters. I wonder if guilt is greater with adopted children just because of the emotional complexities of adoption. It's strange how parents in these situations are often driven apart in their grief. I always thought it would be shared.

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Annecdotist
8/4/2017 03:06:45 pm

Yes, I imagine it’s dreadful, knowing they need you but you can’t get to them. Interestingly might be more complicated with adoption. I think The Boy the mother had been quite limited in her affections where as in The Stolen Child there was dealt at the attention the younger, and naturally conceived, child needed.
I suppose that the shared grief can bring couples together, but I think what often happens is that they become estranged through their slightly different ways of managing the pain when their resources are depleted because of the unbearable stress.

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