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Anne Goodwin writes entertaining fiction about identity, mental health and social justice. She has published three novels and a short story collection with Inspired Quill. Her debut, Sugar and Snails, was shortlisted for the Polari First Book Prize. Her new novel, Matilda Windsor Is Coming Home, is rooted in her work as a clinical psychologist in a long-stay psychiatric hospital.

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Even loving marriages have secrets: How I Lose You & Fire Sermon

11/4/2018

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Two debut novels by women about women reviewing their (successful and stable) marriages in the context of an important relationship for one partner that’s not shared with the other. In the first, the wife’s passion for God and poetry leads her into the mind, arms and eventual bed of a man who isn’t her husband; in the second, the wife, emerging from her grief at her husband’s sudden death, becomes suspicious about the nature of his secret friendship with a woman he’s met on business trips abroad. Both authors employ non-linear structure to good effect.

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Fire Sermon by Jamie Quatro

Finding herself deeply moved by a poetry collection, Maggie emails the author, James Abbott. Something clicks between them, both intellectually (sharing an interest in analysing their Christian beliefs) and in their demographics (born only a few miles apart and now married with a girl and boy of similar ages). Their friendship develops over a year of emails and letters, James encouraging Maggie’s tentative attempts at poetry, until they finally meet at a conference, and the meeting of minds becomes a meeting of bodies.
 
Of course, Maggie feels guilty and her religion is the framework through which she attempts to process what she’s done. Much of this went over my head, but I found some quite poignant. Thomas, her husband, supportive and patient in so many other ways, is a bit of a brute in bed. Maggie rationalises his behaviour in terms of his abandonment issues left over from childhood and her sexual submission as an enactment of Christ’s acceptance of the path that would lead to death on the cross. She thinks of her affair with James in terms of wanting only what is forbidden.
 
Daughter Kate seems to be the one who suffers most from the fallout. Developing anxiety symptoms, Maggie and Thomas take her to a therapist who (quite reasonably to my way of thinking) teaches her to use imagery to soothe herself. (Unfortunately, it doesn’t help long-term and she’s finally put on medication.) The therapist’s explanation to the parents – Their imaginations take them down roads that bodies aren’t equipped to navigate (p84) – could apply equally to Maggie (or its reverse). Unfortunately, his gentle enquiry about “anything else going on at home” seems not to have received an affirmative reply. Her own Q&A with what’s referred to as a counsellor at one point is more likely to be God or her conscience than a therapist.
 
Jamie Quatro’s debut novel is a cerebral literary-literary story of the battleground between intellect, body and soul, that circles time and styles without jarring. Although on the surface the topic of the religious repercussions of adultery might seem outdated (and at one point, perhaps the novel’s only joke, Maggie’s agent says as much), but the author addresses it in a fresh and engaging way. Thanks to Picador for my review copy. For another novel about poets, see my review of
Larchfield.

How I Lose You by Kate McNaughton

When Eva wakes up to find her thirty-one-year-old husband Adam dead in bed beside her, courtesy of an undiagnosed heart defect, she quickly becomes acquainted with the five stages of grief. Alongside trying to rebuild her life without him, she reviews their relationship from the first meeting as undergraduates at Cambridge on a freshers’ week pub crawl. At the same time, she can’t help delving into the part of his life she didn’t share, his work as a medical doctor involving regular trips to Berlin. This proves to have been a point of contention within the marriage: Eva’s mother having grown up in the city on the eastern side of the wall, Adam could never understand why she’d never agree to come with him. After a while, he stopped asking. Now Eva wonders if an unfamiliar name in his address book might be the reason why.
 
There’s a refreshing honesty in the author’s depiction of how, even in the most loving relationships, we don’t always share our best sides with our partners, or forgive them when they do the same to us, illustrated in dialogue, complete with pauses think with meaning, that would work well on stage. On occasion, however, this style slowed the novel down too much for me, especially in the first third when Eva is mired in grief, or in flashbacks to student days. It picks up when she travels to Berlin when it becomes a genealogy narrative, with sharp observations of how we might continue to believe the family stories bequeathed to us by our parents long past the age when scepticism usually creeps in.
 
Published by Doubleday, who provided my review copy, Kate McNaughton’s debut novel is an accessible story of grief and loss, and the impossibility of knowing another person. I can’t quite make up my mind whether it’s got something for everyone or it’s trying to do too much.

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Norah Colvin link
12/4/2018 08:19:19 am

Hi Anne. These look interesting, delving into the psychology of why we behave the way we do and why we're more likely to forgive our own transgressions than those of another. Or am I reading too much into it. Your opening sentence to How I Lose You shocked me. One wouldn't expect to wake up beside a dead 31 year old, but my niece died at age 23 from an undiagnosed heart condition (actually it could have been any of three). I quite like the premise of this one - the secrets we keep from each other and why. I was pleased to see you approved the therapist's position in Fire Sermon.

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Annecdotist
12/4/2018 11:30:00 am

Thanks, Norah, it kind of goes against the forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us thing we rattled off in childhood – or perhaps that was meant aspirationally. I certainly identified with the opprobrium for a partner’s small misdemeanours that was illustrated in How I Lose You but I don’t think Maggie in Fire Sermon forgave herself for cheating on her husband, and nor should she in my opinion whether she feels judged by God or not.
I did approve of the therapist, but now I’m remembering that he should have pushed a bit harder with the parents regarding anything else going on at home. Do I forgive him? That child seemed all right in the end, but she did have a rough childhood.
So sad about your niece. As far as I’m aware, there haven’t been any cases of sudden deaths of an otherwise fit young person in my family, but it resonated because my nephew died at the age of 31. Because I view his situation as worse (although it’s wrong to compare), leaving behind not just a wife but a baby, I might have been less sympathetic to Eva’s grief than some readers.

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Charli Mills
15/4/2018 12:48:12 am

I wonder if writers and readers both are in a place an time that we feel a need to examine marriages and the roles of women. At least, that is what came to mind as I contemplated both your reviews. Fire Sermon sounds intriguing to read.

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Annecdotist
15/4/2018 04:03:57 pm

Maybe, although haven’t there always been novels about how couples can tear each other apart?
Although it’s not my thing, I admire Jamie Quatro for creating a contemporary religious character within a secular age. You might enjoy it.

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