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Anne Goodwin’s drive to understand what makes people tick led to a career in clinical psychology. That same curiosity now powers her fiction.
A prize-winning short-story writer, she has published three novels and a short story collection with small independent press, Inspired Quill. Her debut novel, Sugar and Snails, was shortlisted for the 2016 Polari First Book Prize.
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Fatherless boys: Little Boy Lost & My Grandmother’s Braid

12/3/2021

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I’ve been reading about fictional male vulnerability in this contemporary translation and this classic from seven decades ago. In the latter, a man has lost his infant son in Nazi-occupied France. Although he’s had an easier war in England, he’s almost as lost as the child. In the other, a family flees poverty in Russia, ostensibly in the hope of better health care for an orphaned boy. But perhaps it’s not him, but his grandparents, who need help most.

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Little Boy Lost by Marghanita Laski

Hilary’s wife and baby son were in Paris when the city fell to the Nazis. Three years on, he’s convinced both are dead. Then he gets a message from a friend of a friend that a five-year-old in a provincial orphanage could be his son.
 
Still grieving his wife and his own loveless childhood, Hilary is unsure whether he even wants the boy to be his. He goes there out of duty in the hope that when he meets the child he’ll know.
 
Yet it isn’t like that. But although his paternity’s unclear, the child’s desperate condition is striking. Not because the nuns who run the orphanage aren’t kindly, but because food is scarce and, across Europe, Jean is far from the only child without parents. Plus, thanks to the British, the whole of northern France is a bomb site.
 
The nuns suggest he spend time with the boy after lessons, without hinting he might take him home. Jean’s deprivation makes connection easy. All Hilary need do is give him simple things he’s never had before: a pair of gloves, a drink in a cafe, an adult to take him to watch the trains.
 
But it’s not so straightforward. Both man and boy are damaged and, when things get difficult, something cracks. Can they heal each other or are they beyond repair?
 
First published in 1949, and reissued in 2001 by Persephone Books, I read this for my book group, and found it fresh and relevant to today. Our orphaned children aren’t in Europe, unless they arrive as refugees. Will we rescue only those who look like us? Hilary’s rationalisation of his selfishness as he takes advantage of the black market echoes contemporary questions of morality about the gulf of opportunity between rich and poor. Plus, how many prospective parents – natural and adoptive alike – gloss over the challenges, as Hilary does, unaware the other side of love is hate?
 
This novel mines the psychological and moral issues with great sensitivity, while being an otherwise easy read. My only reservation was in the final paragraph, where I felt the author might have lost her nerve. If you read it, let me know if you agree.


My Grandmother’s Braid by Alina Bronsky
translated by Tim Mohr

Max and his grandparents are Russian refugees in a German apartment block designated for Jews. Although Grandmother attends the synagogue, she’s a confirmed anti-Semite, albeit willing to make exceptions for her neighbour Nina and daughter Vera. But the matriarch sees no contradiction in the various stories that have granted her family asylum. She doesn’t notice that Max, whom she considers mentally and physically fragile, adapts to their adopted country better than most.
 
Max narrates this family story with wry humour across a decade of his childhood, as he gradually develops a mind of his own. The author cleverly depicts the young boy’s initial acceptance of Grandmother’s version of events, while showing the reader how distorted her perspective is. I did wonder at his self-assurance despite having been raised by a woman who hears voices and co-opts everyone into her OCD rituals. But this isn’t a novel to take too literally, but go with the flow and enjoy the ride.
 
Along the way, Max learns about his parentage, Grandmother deploys her skills as a dancer and Grandfather forges a surprising link between his family and Nina’s. Overall, it’s a humorous coming-of-age story about family secrets, deluded matriarchs and refugees. Thanks to publishers Europa editions for my review copy.
 
My second novel, Underneath, is also a boy without a father, who becomes as dangerously vulnerable as Hilary as a man. Click on the image to learn more.

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I was going to write about Steve when I checked the prompt for the latest flash fiction challenge to write a 99-word story about deep wishes. Then I shifted my attention to Jean, until a nameless boy in a crowded boat begged me to tell his story. It seemed the least I could do.


Buried dreams
 
One was easy: Please water! Please food! It slumbered in his larynx, ready to erupt on reaching dry land. He’d crushed the second in his chest when he learned the consequences of questioning the crew. Desire for coat or canopy to combat gale and hail migrated from his stomach to his bowels. His dreams of home, school, a football pitch dropped deeper with every battering of the boat until they reached his toes. But he’d abandoned hope of seeing his father again so long ago, he’d almost forgotten. That wish, like a surplus body, sinking to the ocean floor.
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Charli Mills
13/3/2021 11:51:02 pm

It intrigues me that Little Boy Lost resonates after all these decades. I'm curious to read just to find out how the author ends the book. I wonder if it was a convention of the times? A sad question: Will we rescue only those who look like us? Or rescue those who don't look like us to show they can conform? In the end, those less fortunate, looks aside, become nothing more than a surplus body. I love how your flash drove wishes deeper and deeper.

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Anne Goodwin
15/3/2021 07:55:42 am

Another perspective on LBL comes from my Jewish friend who felt the author, also a Jew, skirted around the elephant of the holocaust in this novel.

And yes, rescuing those who don't look like us only if they don't need to be rescued.

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Norah Colvin
14/3/2021 07:39:33 am

Both these books sound interesting, Anne, and fit in with two that I have just read, though written for a different audience. One is a middle grade book about a Jewish boy assisted by Muslims in Paris during WWII. The other is a picture book about a refugee boy. Both excellent. Your flash is also very similar, though both books I read reached a hopeful conclusion, as they need to for a younger audience. It is so sad when hopes and dreams must be drowned as they are in your flash, and are for so many.

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Anne Goodwin
15/3/2021 07:57:53 am

A positive story about Muslims and Jews in WWIIsounds perfect. I'd like to read the adult version of that!

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Norah Colvin
22/3/2021 10:03:44 am

I don't know if there is one, Anne, but it would be interesting.

Anne Goodwin
24/3/2021 08:57:38 am

Would indeed.

D. Avery link
14/3/2021 08:47:28 pm

I'm just getting started making the rounds and what a start. First Charli's flash, now yours. Powerful stuff.
I am interested in this first book; this is becoming an expensive stop. (Not really, good reading is priceless) I am still reeling from The Prophets, such ugly haunting truths in that tale of magic.

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Anne Goodwin
15/3/2021 08:00:15 am

Thanks, D. I was pleased with how that FF turned out.
Hopefully, the books you pick up here will be worth those dollars.

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Colleen Chesebro link
15/3/2021 04:32:17 pm

My great grandparents and my grandfather left Russia for America in 1906. I've always thought how smart my great grandfather was to get the family out. They were Germans who farmed along the Volga River. Eventually, after a hundred years, the Russians said they weren't Russian, and the Germans said they weren't German. Little Boy Lost sounds like a great read (which prompted my genealogical meandering). By the way, I'm reading Sugar and Snails and enjoying the story as it unfolds. Your characters are captivating! <3

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Anne Goodwin
17/3/2021 04:27:58 pm

Sounds like your great-grandfather was pretty wise getting out. Neither Russia nor Germany would have been much fun at that time. Thanks for reading Sugar and Snails and good to know you're enjoying it.

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