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Anne Goodwin’s drive to understand what makes people tick led to a career in clinical psychology. That same curiosity now powers her fiction.
A prize-winning short-story writer, she has published three novels and a short story collection with small independent press, Inspired Quill. Her debut novel, Sugar and Snails, was shortlisted for the 2016 Polari First Book Prize.
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Friend fatale: female friendship gone sour in novels by Margaret Atwood, Colette McBeth and Paula Daly

10/5/2014

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I’ve been hanging out with some false friends lately; fortunately these were solely of the literary kind.  Three novels by female writers featuring those duplicitous characters our mothers warned us, if we were lucky, to steer away from; not a great advert for women’s friendships but they do make intriguing companions on the page. 

I first read Cat’s Eye by Margaret Atwood over twenty years ago, but a recent review from Vulpus Libris has had me itching to give it another airing.  A middle-aged painter returns to her home turf to find herself haunted by childhood memories of unbearable betrayals and cruelties perpetuated by her supposed best friend and tormentor, Cordelia.  As we’d expect from a writer as talented as Margaret Atwood, the relationship is brilliantly portrayed, both in terms of how the ten-year-old bully grooms and seduces her victim, and its impact on the adult personality of Elaine who, despite objective success in her chosen field, remains badly bruised by the experience.

Clara and Rachel, the ill-fated best friends in Precious Thing by Colette McBeth, first meet at fourteen, slap in the middle of messy adolescence.  Inseparable until Clara mysteriously goes away at the end of their teens, when they meet up again in their late-20s, their roles are reversed: Clara, the previously charismatic one, is insecure, while Rachel, the dumpy awkward teen, seems to have it made with the boyfriend, smart flat and successful media career.  What I liked about this novel was that, while it’s narrated primarily from Rachel’s point of view, the reader is left to read between the lines to make up her own mind of which of the two women is the most poisonous.

In Keep Your Friends Close by Paula Daly, the psychopathic Eve is certainly the villain of the piece, but Natty is no angel either, and is prepared to give as much as she gets.  The two women met at university at the end of their teens and have kept in touch, despite living in different continents, for fifteen years before Eve seizes the opportunity of Natty’s temporary absence from the home to take over husband, house and life.  The reader wonders just how far these women will go, as the author makes things progressively harder for her characters, until the surprise but satisfying ending, which neatly ties up several plot threads.

While both of these novels are page turners and, with one a debut and the other second novel, it would be unfair to expect them to be as faultless as Cat’s Eye, but in neither of these was I totally convinced that the women’s friendships would have endured the way they did.  Although in Precious Thing the reason for the hiatus in, and re-establishment of, the friendship becomes clear towards the end, and reassessing the past is part of the plot, my scepticism did impinge on my enjoyment of the early chapters.  In Keep Your Friends Close we are given a rationale for Eve’s extreme behaviour, yet I wasn’t altogether convinced.  However, this may simply reflect my preference for novels with a stronger emphasis on character than plot.  I also wondered if the difference in the ages at which the girls/women got together affected how credible the unbalanced relationships seemed; I know we can be duped at any age, but perhaps those early friendships are the most risky.

You can check out my own limitations in writing about female friendship among children in my short story Jessica’s Navel and among adults in my short story The Good News. 

What’s your experience of dodgy female friendships in fiction and/or real life?  I look forward to your comments.

Thanks to Headline Review for my copy of Precious Thing and Alison Barrow at Transworld books and Sonya from the blog A Lover of Books for my copy of Keep Your Friends Close.
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Lori Schafer link
14/5/2014 06:03:52 pm

I tend to be wary of these kinds of characterizations of women, for a very selfish - and not completely logical - reason. I don't like the idea of perpetuating the stereotype of competitive, catty women who are always trying to bring each other down. Or worse, lift themselves up by knocking someone else down. Of course, it happens, probably more than I think. But I guess for me, I'd rather see positive examples of women who uplift and support one another - which is what I see happening much more often among non-fictional women.

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Annecdotist
15/5/2014 04:23:27 am

Thanks for commenting, Lori, and you make a really interesting point. Often in fiction we enjoy seeing people at their worst, but that can sometimes perpetuate unhelpful stereotypes. I'm just about to read another novel on a similar theme, this time by an author I already admire (Harriet Lane) so I'll be looking out for how this affects my reading. But I've also got one in my TBR pile that looks as if it's the male version of a similar phenomenon, so I'll let you know how that goes.

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Norah Colvin link
17/5/2014 09:22:21 pm

Hi Anne,
I have finally made it back to read both your stories. Great reads. "The Good News" touched me more as I am more able to identify with the characters, their situation and their relationship including Penny's reaction to Lorna's news. "Jessica's Navel" is more about my daughter's generation. In both stories you have created very believable and well-developed characters. I feel I could know any one of them. Lori said she would rather see pictures of women who uplift and support each other, which is exactly what you have portrayed in "The Good News", but with realism, warts and all. Well done.

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Annecdotist
18/5/2014 04:26:02 am

Thanks for reading, Norah, and your generous supportive comments. I think perhaps Jessica's Navel has too many themes in it and is more about the mother-daughter relationship than friendship. As for The Good News, I'm happy that you saw the "warts and all". Penny is rather self-absorbed, as many of us can be from time to time.

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Caroline link
26/5/2014 12:24:34 pm

I've led a sheltered life but these experiences are new to me. I'd better try these novels. You make them sound very interesting.

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Annecdotist
27/5/2014 03:15:06 am

Thanks, Caroline, I think a sheltered life is preferable in this regard

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