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Anne Goodwin’s drive to understand what makes people tick led to a career in clinical psychology. That same curiosity now powers her fiction.
A prize-winning short-story writer, she has published three novels and a short story collection with small independent press, Inspired Quill. Her debut novel, Sugar and Snails, was shortlisted for the 2016 Polari First Book Prize.
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Holiday Reads: The Lemon Grove and Bite Sized Memoir

24/7/2014

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The last time the husband and I went on holiday we came home a day early, and enjoyed ourselves an awful lot more pottering around the garden than we would have done looking for more touristy things to fill the time. The thatched-roofed cottage I’d booked in a chocolate-box Dorset village had a wall-full of Penguins, but the latticed windows alongside the narrow cobbled street made for a sombre interior, far from ideal for curling up with a book. Since then, we’ve managed a couple of weekends away but I don’t think either of us will be dreadfully disappointed if we never go on holiday again. But that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy reading about other people’s holidays, especially when they don’t go completely to plan.

Jenn has been having a marvellous holiday on the Mediterranean island of Mallorca with her husband, Greg. But her fifteen-year-old stepdaughter, Emma, will be joining them shortly, with unsuitable boyfriend, Nathan, in tow. Their arrival changes everything, although not quite in the way she expected. Jenn finds herself seduced by Nathan’s youth and sensuality and, amid thunderstorms and searing heat, risks, not only her marriage, but her sense of herself.
There’d been a fair amount of media hype about The Lemon Grove, so I was surprised when I didn’t warm to it as readily as I had to another Mallorca-set villa-holiday novel, The Vacationers. The writing was competent:

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Jenn watches daybreak from the kitchen window; streaks of green and pink slowly scratch the sky to life. The sea begins to glint, from grey to rippling silver (p133)

with enough narrative tension to keep me reading, but I didn’t feel a strong emotional connection with the story. All that changed from around the midpoint onward, when I found myself in awe of the author’s imagination and storytelling skills. Helen Walsh writes excellent sex scenes, erotic rather than cringe-making, so that I, as another middle-aged long-married woman, felt vicariously charmed by the dangerously beautiful young man. There was a satisfying depth to the dynamics of the relationship between Emma, Greg and Jenn, raising questions about the couple’s parenting decisions, the changing needs of children from infancy to adolescence, and the responsibilities of raising someone else’s child. Jenn’s fear of being trapped in her marriage by Emma’s dependence on her was reminiscent of the stranded women in the debut novels of both Emma Chapman and Aria Beth Sloss. A catalogue of secrets and misunderstanding between the four central characters led to a satisfying climax such that I longed to know how the author had managed to keep track of the interconnecting strands.

My lack of enthusiasm for real-life holidays ensures I have mixed feelings about Lisa Reiter’s latest bite-sized memoir prompt. Holiday reads would be fine, apart from the challenge of choosing, if we could erase the “holiday” from the mix. Yet I ought to be able to do it, since memoir is about memory and I’ve had lots of travel adventures in the past. However, I’d be much happier if we could erase the “memoir” element: despite the encouragement and hand-holding I’ve received in response to my nibbles, I’m far from converted to memoir. I’m driven to write fiction … and, if I can get away with it, to dictate what others should read. But I’ve plunged in with a mélange of memoir and confabulation in roughly chronological order:

I remember reading The Bell Jar (Sylvia Plath) with my sister as we sunbathed by the sea, until a man asked if he could take our photos in tinier swimsuits.

I remember Thomas Cook’s European Railway Timetable leaving me no time for novels as we tried to cover the continent in our allotted twenty-eight days.

I remember deluding myself I could relax with a novel in the original Spanish on a beach holiday.

I remember reading about tea with the vicar in Barbara Pym’s Excellent Women as prayer flags flapped in the breeze at a temple near Kathmandu.

I don’t remember reading Tagore in Calcutta or Mahfouz in Cairo or Tsitsi Dangarembga in Harare though the evidence resides on my bookshelves.

I remember the first day out for a walk with the man who is now my husband when he read me poetry though I can’t remember what it was.

I remember reading Eight Feet in the Andes by Dervla Murphy in the Andes and realising I wasn’t an intrepid traveller after all.

I remember hiding from the hot afternoon in our cabin in the Etosha National Park in Namibia to read The Blind Assassin by Margaret Atwood, unaware that the caretaker had taken it upon himself to hose down our hire car. If this were fiction, I’d have been reading about water conservation or masters and servants or the cruelty of apartheid instead.

I remember how I cried at the end of Bel Canto (Ann Patchett) on the flight home from a holiday in Patagonia that I should never have gone on.

I don’t remember what I read in that picturesque Dorset cottage but, if you’re heading that way, Remarkable Creatures by Tracy Chevalier should put you in the right frame of mind for fossil hunting on the Jurassic Coast.

I do hope that wasn’t too boring. Or, I don’t know, maybe I should be banned from Bite-Size Memoir?

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Lisa Reiter link
24/7/2014 06:42:51 am

Oh so very far from boring - beautifully evocative of all sorts of places and wonderful little glimpses into you and situations you've found yourself in on holiday. Thank you

I think it's brave to discuss the 'reality' of a lot of holidays as you do in the first part of your post. It's a bit like birthdays and New Year - there's a pressure to have had the 'best time ever' when in fact curling up quietly by a fire or lying in a warm sunny corner and reading a good book is much better than many of the other options!

Part of me fully understands 'I don’t think either of us will be dreadfully disappointed if we never go on holiday again.' as the stress building up to them often leaves me wishing I were staying home with my cats and chickens instead of spending weeks making arrangements only to be disappointed with my destination! Hoping Sri Lanka for Simon's 50th proves to be an exception!

Thanks Anne, Lisa xx

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Annecdotist
25/7/2014 10:50:15 am

Thank you, Lisa, I don't envy you that long journey and all the preparation to go away but it will be lovely to look back on and, who knows, once you're on that plane and there's nothing else you can do about it you might just enjoy it!!!
I think there's different things for different phases of our lives and, if anyone doubts whether people can actually change their personality, I'm a prime example of someone who used to be a travelholic transformed into a stay at home girl.

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Teagan Kearney link
24/7/2014 01:02:26 pm

Banned from memoir? Never, Anne. I enjoyed the montage of books and places and found them evocative. I was considering 'Lemon Grove' yesterday - you might have persuaded me.
By the way, loved 'the' husband... you made him seem like some kind of accessory!

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Annecdotist
25/7/2014 10:51:42 am

Thanks, Teagan, glad I didn't bore you and helped you make up your mind about The Lemon Grove. Let me know what you think if/when you do read it.

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Annecdotist
25/7/2014 11:03:11 am

Oh, and I'll just go and tell my husband the blogosphere knows him as my accessory.

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geoff link
24/7/2014 03:04:19 pm

You can run but you cannot hide. You write beautifully, each sentence carefully crafted. You may not want to reveal yourself through memoire - I'm a little the same (no not really) - but what seem like trite memories to you (and thus boring to us) are often fascinating glimpses of another's life. And since your life has clearly been full and rich, we'd like to know about it. Throughout my dad's letters he begs my mother to write because the mundane to her is evocative to him. It stimulates his own memories. Your memories bring out our own. Please don't protect us from your boring stories. Your writing is too compelling to be boring.

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Annecdotist
25/7/2014 10:57:22 am

Geoff, you are far too generous here – unless this is a clever ruse to shame me into keeping up with Lisa's challenges (what a relief we're let off for the summer). I think most people's lives are interesting if related in the right way – but I genuinely think mine is more interesting and even truthful filtered through fiction. However, it's also the case that we can't look at our own work objectively, so I appreciate your kind feedback.

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Norah Colvin link
25/7/2014 06:33:17 am

I agree with all three comments above. I am amazed by the travelling you have done. We are so far away down here in the Antipodes that I have done a minuscule amount of travel. My 'hub' emigrated from Belfast as a young adult (we met not long after) and thought life in Australia was a long holiday. He was not interested in travelling anywhere much and had only a few trips home. I have had three overseas trips - one to Beijing and two to Belfast, all this century (within the last 10 years). I'm hoping for another later this year to visit family in London - still a few things to sort out. Hearing of all your exotic adventures is just fascinating. Please let me share in them vicariously!

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Annecdotist
25/7/2014 11:01:58 am

Thank you, Norah, I am lucky to have been able to travel so much, and feel especially lucky it now it's all in the past! I much prefer vicarious travels now.
I met a lot of Australians in my backpacking days and they were often travelling for several months or even years at a time since, as you say, you are a long way and a lot of dollars from anywhere else. I like the idea of your husband's in Australia as one long holiday. And now we know you're really coming the UK we must think of a suitable focus for a blog/Twitter get-together.

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Caroline link
25/7/2014 11:52:27 am

I enjoyed your piece of memoir, books and travel (holidays). Books become associated with place, don't they. Like smells. I remember reading CV Wedgwood's William of Orange by the Dordogne. Really followed by all three of the Lord of the Rings.And as children a trip to WH Smiths to buy two paperbacks signalled the imminent departure on camping holiday. Lovely Caroline.

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Annecdotist
26/7/2014 11:15:15 am

Thanks for commenting, Caroline. I love the idea of going shopping for books being part of your childhood holiday preparations. Until I did this list, I thought I was quite good at choosing my fiction to match the place I was travelling but, like lots of my memories, that seems to be a fiction itself.

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