Having been back to the city as a proper tourist and ventured beyond the airport and the superficiality of first impressions, I wouldn't say that was necessarily characteristic of the nation (at least not after a few vodkas). But, according to Lucy Mangan, Bitchy Resting Face is an international affliction. I think I suffer from the opposite, a tendency to look amazingly cheerful (except, perhaps, in my photos) when I'm dying inside.
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I started this blog in 2013 to share my reflections on reading, writing and psychology, along with my journey to become a published novelist. I soon graduated to about twenty book reviews a month and a weekly 99-word story. Ten years later, I've transferred my writing / publication updates to my new website but will continue here with occasional reviews and flash fiction pieces, and maybe the odd personal post.
Many moons ago, when I still liked to travel, I took a long haul flight with Aeroflot that meant a stopover of several hours at Moscow airport. This was back in the days of the Iron Curtain but, apart from not being allowed out to explore, they treated us well, with a room to lie down in after a hearty breakfast. What I remember most, however, was having my stereotypes confirmed about life under communism: none of the staff who took care of us ever smiled. Having been back to the city as a proper tourist and ventured beyond the airport and the superficiality of first impressions, I wouldn't say that was necessarily characteristic of the nation (at least not after a few vodkas). But, according to Lucy Mangan, Bitchy Resting Face is an international affliction. I think I suffer from the opposite, a tendency to look amazingly cheerful (except, perhaps, in my photos) when I'm dying inside. While the BFR video is tremendous fun, I'm not sure it does much for those afflicted with a genuine disorder, one that unfortunately doesn't generate a lot of laughs. Moebius syndrome is a rare neurological disorder, present at birth in which children are unable to move their faces and being unable to smile is perhaps the least of their problems. I've explored this in my story My Beautiful Smile, first published by Gold Dust and now given another outing. Feel free to read it with what ever facial expression you fancy, but I hope it leaves you with a sense of satisfaction and true gratitude for the ability - if you have it - to smile. And, if you can, wear purple today to mark Moebius Awareness Day.
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27/1/2014 12:59:18 am
You've given us a new perspective - we take our ability to smile for granted. Imagine not being able to make use of this wonderful human function, which brings out the best in the giver and the receiver.
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27/1/2014 04:42:15 am
Thanks, Derbhile. yes, I was really curious about how difficult it must be not to have that capacity.
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29/1/2014 05:31:30 am
I agree entirely with Derbhile. I hadn't heard of Moebius syndrome before. Thanks for letting me know. Means we should all smile much more frequently.
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30/1/2014 05:06:45 am
Yeah, let's make full use of the capacities we have!
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28/5/2016 06:14:46 pm
I wear a similar cheerful countenance that was put to the test in Minnesota where a smile is not something strangers exchange. This post certainly broadens the idea if a smile as a prompt. You might also be interested in a post Rough Writer, Deborah Lee wrote about Seattle being the home of the Resting Bitchy Face, and adds some other ideas to the topic and our right to smile or not: https://99monkeysblog.wordpress.com/2016/04/28/seattle-home-for-your-resting-bitch-face/
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29/5/2016 02:15:06 pm
Oh, Charli, if we ever meet up we can smile away at each other to our heart’s content. I remember my mother’s account of my eldest niece when she was quite young asking if she was invisible when she’d smiled at someone and they hadn’t smiled back. Thanks for that link to Deborah’s post – I’ll follow that up.
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