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Anne Goodwin’s drive to understand what makes people tick led to a career in clinical psychology. That same curiosity now powers her fiction.
A prize-winning short-story writer, she has published three novels and a short story collection with small independent press, Inspired Quill. Her debut novel, Sugar and Snails, was shortlisted for the 2016 Polari First Book Prize.
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Two novels about male infidelity and its meaning for the women affected

29/8/2017

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When I plucked A Separation from my TBR shelf shortly after reading The Squeeze, I wasn’t sure I’d get away with pairing these two novels. After featuring fictional female infidelity a few months ago, introducing you to Mats and Christopher is a way of redressing the gender balance, but neither of these novels is really about the act of sex outside marriage. It wasn’t until I read the much more philosophising A Separation, that it struck me that the more plot-driven The Squeeze is also about the impact on the meaning and relationship status the women (one wife, the other a sex worker) carry in their minds, irrespective of the bonds of legality.

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The Squeeze by Lesley Glaister

When Mats gets the offer of a transfer from Oslo to his firm’s Edinburgh office, he hopes it will be the opportunity to finally start a family. Instead, his move precipitates the breakdown of his marriage. His loneliness propels him into the arms of Vivienne, the receptionist at work, and her young son, and it’s not long before he’s married again, with a baby on the way. But Vivienne doesn’t take well to second-time motherhood. Although Mats endeavours to be a good husband and father, taking on the bulk of the childcare alongside a full-time job, Vivienne’s depression and lack of interest in sex proves oppressive and he’s easily persuaded to go drinking with his workmates on Friday nights. From there, it’s a short step to a brothel – not Mats’ idea, but he doesn’t say no.
 
Here his path meets that of Marta, a young woman the reader first encounters in her native Romania after the downfall of Ceausescu. Having given up her dream of attending university after the death of her father, she works the evening shift in a chemical factory. No-one could blame her for wanting a better life. But, trafficked to Britain and forced into prostitution, and her only friend having mysteriously disappeared, she hides her unhappiness behind a painted smile.
 
While The Squeeze has all the elements of a cracking read – fine writing, convincing characters, social relevance and enough jeopardy to keep those pages turning – I couldn’t, at the end, make up my mind what I made of it as a whole. Maybe
it says more about me than about Lesley Glaister’s fifteenth novel (kindly provided by publishers, Salt), that it didn’t move me emotionally the way I might expect. It did, however, make me question our collective (albeit grudging) acceptance of men paying for sex (as long as we don’t knowingly know them personally), a practice that enables people trafficking in the same way that viewing indecent images online enables the sexual abuse of children. For another novel on this difficult but important topic, see my review of Epiphany Jones.

A Separation by Katie Kitamura

The unnamed narrator, an American woman living in London, receives a phone call from her mother-in-law sending her on a mission to Greece. The narrator’s soon-to-be ex-husband, Christopher, has apparently gone missing there. As the upper-class Isabella is not easily thwarted, and the narrator can easily continue her work as a translator from a comfortable hotel with a beautiful view, she finds it easier to say she’ll investigate than to explain they’ve already separated.
 
Although it turns out that a crime has been committed, and the narrator discovers aspects of her husband’s philandering via the hotel staff, the heart of this novel’s investigation is into the ethics and etiquette of the transactions between men and women both in and outside marriage. The narrator’s status in relation to her absent husband is constantly in flux, becoming increasingly complex – and confusing to her – as the novel progresses. But it’s not only her own marriage and its deconstruction that intrigues her; she also diagnoses a certain artifice in other couples she observes.
 
The voice is languid, almost stream of consciousness, sometimes priggish and hypercritical, sometimes insightful. For example, she recognises the absurdity of the
position of tourist, saying (p80):
 
A tourist – almost by definition a person immersed in prejudice, whose interest was circumscribed, who admired the weathered faces and rustic manners of the local inhabitants, a perspective entirely contemptuous but nonetheless difficult to avoid. I would have irritated myself in that position. By my presence alone, I reduced their home to a backdrop for my leisure, it became picturesque, quaint, charming, words on the back of a postcard or a brochure.
 
At other times, despite his multiple infidelities, she is protective of her husband’s reputation, if only in her own mind. Christopher has gone to Greece to research professional mourners for a book, although his mother doesn’t consider his writing a serious activity and he doesn’t seem to need to earn a living.
 
I enjoyed Katie Kitamura’s second novel – thanks to Profile Books for my proof copy – but a difficult one (for me at least) to summarise. Perhaps “difficult to summarise” is what the author is trying to tell us about contemporary relationships. For another odd-but-interesting novel about marriage, see my review of
First Love.
 

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Norah Colvin link
8/9/2017 11:10:18 am

Hi Anne, I see I'm not the only one coming late to this post. There seems to be a lot about the complexities and unpleasant parts of marital relationships in both these books. An interesting coupling, dare I say. Hmm. I'm not sure about the content. When I watch the evening news and read things like this, I get the very strong feeling that much of society is engaged in practices which are supposedly frowned upon. I find it a bit unsettling coming from my over-protected and conflicted upbringing.

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Annecdotist
9/9/2017 03:20:48 pm

Thanks for your support, Norah. I sometimes think (as I approach my 100th book read this year) I post to many reviews for readers to keep up so no worries when you miss – and especially when the subject matter is unsettling. I seem to have got myself on a roll with novels about sex trafficking lately but there’s a rather nice one actually meant for children A Jigsaw of Fire and Stars which I’ve just posted today. But the novel I started reading last night – The Parcel – is probably the most disturbing of the lot. Nothing wrong with being protected!

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