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Anne Goodwin’s drive to understand what makes people tick led to a career in clinical psychology. That same curiosity now powers her fiction.
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Two novels and a memoir about caring for babies

24/9/2017

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As far as I’m concerned, the welfare of babies and young children is a collective responsibility, so I offer no apologies for linking these three books. The first is a historical novel that begins with a fascinating account of the experience of a wet nurse in nineteenth century Spain, before moving on to the adult lives of the princess who had first turn at the breast and her milk brother, the woman’s own baby. The second is a contemporary novel set a century later, about a young American woman working as a nanny to a Japanese toddler. Both novels show the strength of attachment we can have to other people’s offspring. The third book is an uncompromising and moving memoir about a young Englishwoman who becomes pregnant as a student and decides to keep the child. Finally, because a baby is a kind of harvest of the womb, we finish with this week’s flash.

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The Living Infinite by Chantel Acevedo

Amalia and her husband are deliriously happy when baby Tomas is born and, unlike their other children, survives. Another adventure is on the horizon, however, when Amalia is offered a job in Spain’s imperial court as wet nurse to the new Princess Eulalia. Although it means feeding her own baby after the infanta is settled, Tomas’ unusual start in life secures him a university education his carpenter father could never have afforded him.
 
As a young man, Tomas, beguiled by the novels of Jules Verne (from one of which the novel takes its title), longs to see the world. So when the opportunity arises for him to travel by ship to Cuba and from there to the 1893 Chicago World’s Fair, he takes it, although he’d never expected to embark on his great adventure with his mother in tow. But she wants to meet again her estranged friend, Gisela, who returned to her roots in Cuba decades before.
 
At the same time, and not unconnected, Eulalia and her husband are making a parallel journey. Officially, she is travelling as a royal emissary to calm the revolutionary fervour in Cuba and represent the Bourbon dynasty at the Fair. Unofficially, she hopes to publish her memoir, revealing the hypocrisy and misogyny of the cloistered Spanish court.
 
Strongly embedded in the history of the time, The Living Infinite is a story of love, duty and rebellion, and the extent to which we can choose our own path through life. Thanks to Europa editions for my review copy.

Yuki Means Happiness by Alison Jean Lester

Diana, a young nurse with itchy feet and anxieties around sexual intimacy, leaves Boston for Tokyo to work as a nanny to two-year-old Yuki Yoshimura. She instantly falls in love with the toddler, and with the country, despite its strange customs and her lack of facility with the language, but the family with whom she lives is more confusing. Initially, all the father, Naoki, will tell her is that his wife, Emi, has left them. Diana wonders what could have happened for the court to award Naoki sole custody and Emi no visiting rights at all.
 
In between language practice, ballet and swimming lessons, shopping and cooking and navigating Tokyo’s super-crowded commuter trains, and letters to a man who’d like to be more than a friend back in the USA, Diana unpicks more of the story until it looks as if both she and Yuki might be at risk. A poignant coming-of-age story,
Yuki Means Happiness turns out to be more disturbing than I expected from the blurb (leading me to a somewhat truncated review for fear of spoiling the story for others), but in a good way, raising questions about the responsibilities of a surrogate parent in a foreign land. I was keen to read this after enjoying the author’s debut, Lillian on Life. Published by John Murray, who provided my review copy, Yuki Means Happiness is both different and even better.

My Shitty Twenties by Emily Morris

About to start her third year of a degree in art history at Manchester University, Emily Morris discovered that the night with a “friend” who claimed to be infertile has resulted in an unexpected pregnancy. Terrified of motherhood, and distraught at the idea of abandoning her studies, Emily nevertheless decides against termination and moves in with her mother in Southport to prepare for her shitty twenties. A decade on, this is her story of struggle, shame and determination to make a decent life for herself and her son.
 
Given my general
aversion to memoir, you’d be forgiven for wondering why I took this on (suggesting an interesting parallel with the surprise expressed by several of Emily’s friends when they discovered she was proceeding with the pregnancy). Publisher Salt who kindly provided my review copy might not be so pleased to know it was partly as research for my current and next WIP, for which I was gratified to learn that yes, a young woman with no prior qualifications for the job can competently take care of a baby and that some real-life mothers’ groups are even worse than the one I imagined. But much more interesting is that, although questioning in a couple of places whether she needed to share so much of her thought processes, I was won over by both her story and the language through which she tells it.
 
Partly what I most appreciated was how, in her reflections on society’s responses to pregnancy and motherhood, makes this a political book. Attitudes to single mothers have become less punishing in recent decades, yet Emily still felt shamed by her predicament: not, as in the bad old days, because it’s evidence that unmarried people have sex, but because she feels foolish for not safeguarding against pregnancy. Theses have been written (I imagine; if they haven’t, they certainly ought to have been) on how pregnant women are involuntary containers for society’s projections. Likewise single mothers and any woman, it seems, who impedes the frantic pace of modern life by inhabiting social space with a child and its necessary accoutrements.
 
As with the novel After Birth, it’s honest about the inadequacy of genuine support, counterbalanced by a strong thread of gratitude for those, particularly her mother, who helped her through. It’s an uplifting story in that, despite the difficulties, motherhood turns out to be so much better than she expected. Some – okay, me and the horrible yummy mummies on a mothering website – might wonder about the wisdom of taking a child not yet two on a budget holiday to Australia, but many will be inspired by her ability to do it her own way and I expect her son will benefit from her refusal to give herself any reason to resent him.


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I’ve moved away from macabre thoughts of baby harvesting for my flash, basing it instead on a recent experience of running a stall at a book fair in a marketplace, fortunately more successfully than implied here. But when I mentioned to a friend what I’d be doing at the weekend, she asked if I’d be giving away apples with every book. How could I, in July, before they were ready? Now if I’d got a chance in September …

Market trader

Proud of my harvest, I hired a market stall. As I was leaving, threw in a bag of surplus veg. Arriving early, I wrote my pitch: FREE VEGETABLES WITH EVERY BOOK. People stopped, but there were no takers, while the queue for the organic produce stall snaked through the aisles. That night, I packed some fancy boxes: a lettuce, a cucumber, three varieties of tomato and a handful of plums in each. Could I get away with charging a tenner for stuff I’d grown for nowt? My new sign read: FREE BOOK WITH EVERY VEG BOX. Apparently, I could.

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Norah Colvin link
24/9/2017 11:29:49 am

Interesting reviews, Anne. A triple this time. I was surprised that you included a memoir. I'm pleased the reading was for business rather than pleasure. You haven't let me down. :) Though one of our first big discussions was about a memoir by Stephen Grosz, wasn't it? I must say, they all sound quite interesting. The memoir may be an interesting reflection on the changes that have occurred in society's attitudes. When I was a young woman it was a disgrace to have a 'shotgun' wedding, and most pregnant single women were compelled to give up their babies for adoption. In my circles, termination wasn't an option. Now people choose to create a family without making the union legal, so to speak, and suffer no shame. In less than half a century, things have changed a lot, and for the better in this way, I think. Mostly.
I love your flash. Sometimes it's hard to figure just what we have to do to get people to buy our wares, isn't it? I hope your sales are growing nicely and bringing you a good harvest.

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Annecdotist
25/9/2017 05:10:31 pm

Ha, you might be interested / surprised in my data on non-fiction which I’ll be presenting at the end of the month :-)
but I’m also intrigued that you’ve tagged The Examined Life as memoir. I suppose it does use personal information, although mostly from his work to make sense of the cases, but most psychoanalytic writing is the same thing (although generally less well written/accessible).
Yes, indeed, attitudes have changed although it’s still outrageous that abortion is illegal in some parts of the UK (Northern Ireland), but I’d better not get started on that bandwagon.
Class you liked my flash. Look forward to checking yours out tomorrow.

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Susan link
25/9/2017 08:37:40 am

So pleased to here that Yuki Means Happiness lives up to expectations. I was surprised by how much I enjoyed Lillian on Life but wasn't at all sure about this one's synopsis.

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Annecdotist
25/9/2017 05:13:25 pm

I can recommend it, Susan, present the blurb is difficult for these kinds of novels in signalling the surprise in a suitably subtle way.
Anyway, I see on twitter that John Boyne likes it too – don’t know if that makes any difference to your reading!

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Jeanne Lombardo link
26/9/2017 01:27:12 am

All three books sound engaging, and the last two resonated with my own experience. Yuki Means Happiness brought back memories of my time in Japan, and the sense of being simultaneously enchanted with the culture yet mystified with certain attitudes. Th eplot sounds intriguing. And having landed in England with a 2-month-old baby and later given birth to my son in London, in reading your review of My Shitty Year, I was reminded of the distinct feeling of Invisibility I sometimes had in England as a "mum" with young children. Or a feeling of being marginalized to the mums groups where I would mingle with other mums and not a few nannies. It was very lonely at times. And I wasn't even a sinlge mom, though the best friend I made there was. This was in the early 90s, when change was on the cusp ... Glad this memoir exceeded your expectations. And I appreciated your very slightly forlorn flash....sigh....the trials of the author. I would have been delighted had I come across your stall adn walking away with the prize of a book!

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Annecdotist
26/9/2017 05:41:03 pm

Thanks, Jeanne. If you know Japan, I think you’d like Yuki. There are some place references I didn’t get. And being more open to memoir than I am, Shitty might appeal also. It must have been difficult coming to a new country with such a young baby, a double culture shock navigating motherhood and London at the same time.

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Lisa @ The Meaning of Me link
29/9/2017 02:53:42 am

Love your collection of reviews here - some interesting reads. I particularly like the looks of the first one, Living Infinite.
Love your flash. So hard to know what we can sell, for how much, whether anyone wants it. I like the flip/flop of the marketing there.

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Annecdotist
29/9/2017 04:53:08 pm

Thanks, Lisa, so glad it worked for you.

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