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I started this blog in 2013 to share my reflections on reading, writing and psychology, along with my journey to become a published novelist.​  I soon graduated to about twenty book reviews a month and a weekly 99-word story. Ten years later, I've transferred my writing / publication updates to my new website but will continue here with occasional reviews and flash fiction pieces, and maybe the odd personal post.

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Belatedly cancelling Christmas is a missed opportunity for growth

20/12/2020

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How lovely to see the Prime Minister’s delusions of Churchillian grandeur cast aside as he’s forced to adopt his rightful role as Scrooge. Sadly, not because he required a twenty-three-year-old footballer to pinpoint the appropriate response to childhood hunger but, in this year of disappointment and deprivation, we must grab consolation where we can.

How distressing, however, for the millions whose hopes for Christmas gatherings are scuppered with little  time to make alternative plans. But hey – silver lining alert! – we can use it as a dress rehearsal for a no-deal Brexit, this Liar of Liars’ principal vanity project. As he didn’t say at a recent press conference: What, no croissants? Let them eat sovereignty instead!

How annoying the missed opportunity: with more mature expectation management from this government, there wouldn’t have been hordes fleeing London last night to beat the deadline (not to stay citizens of Europe, but to carry the new mutation of the virus up north). The loss is not only a collective one to limit contagion, but an individual one to renounce the Christmas myth.
 
I disagree with Nietzsche: in general, whatever doesn’t kill you does NOT make you stronger. But sometimes, just sometimes, adversity helps us grow. We could have used Christmas 2020 to develop resilience and reduce our dependence on this festival of infantile excess.

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Take my Christmas 'personality' assessment.

Christmas is a bit like Brexit: some will profit (financially and/or emotionally) and some will suffer (for similar reasons), and some will be dragged along in its slipstream, whether we like it or not. Brexiteers scoff at Remoaners, while Europeans shake their heads and wonder why 52% of those who voted in the referendum opted for a pig in a poke. Meanwhile, I wonder why self-confessed Christmas martyrs condemn themselves to frantic shopping and cooking, and nightmarish debt.
 
Some years, from mid-December, it feels I’m living in a totalitarian state. When else, apart from Brexit and Christmas, are we told we all want the same thing? As I’ve said before, it’s great for those whose circumstances match the template but oppressive for those who don’t.

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The only present I bought this year was a mask identical to this for a friend who's also a fan of the Singh twins' art.

You can drop the tree, the turkey, the presents and the carols, but it would take more than a national lockdown to ignore Christmas altogether. A mask won’t protect you: the ‘season of goodwill’ infects your body and mind. Lurking in the collective consciousness, there’s a pressure to believe. If not quite in Santa,
then in the fantasy of happy families and problems resolved with a new toy.

Yet this could have been the perfect Christmas if the government hadn’t promised people a pared-down version of last year’s. We could have had a Christmas where only kids behave like kids, stamp their feet and scream I want it now! Where adults act responsibly, accept that ‘being good’ all year by staying at home doesn’t entitle us to spend five days pretending the virus isn’t real. We could have created new traditions – less frantic, less manic – to serve us better in the future. It’s not only this Christmas we need strategies to make do with less. We need a change of attitude to tackle the climate crisis too.

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But we needed leadership to make this happen. Instead the man in charge seems to think a spirit of optimism works wonders. I call that magical thinking or a manic defence. Just hours with the rescuer or compulsive helper, wanting things fixed is no qualification very serious job.
 
Alone or apart, we have much to celebrate this Christmas. We’re breathing, when others have died of covid. And surely the vaccine is the best possible present of all.

Thanks for reading. I'd love to know what you think. If you've enjoyed this post, you might like to sign up via the sidebar for regular email updates and/or my quarterly Newsletter.
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Norah Colvin
22/12/2020 11:27:50 am

Hopefully, the vaccine will help life return to a little more like what was once 'normal' but with some of the changes you wish for during this Christmas season. (How many wishes can a non-believer make? 😉- Just kidding, Anne.) We've had another (small) outbreak over here which is throwing a lot of people's plans into chaos. We're waiting until March for the vaccine. Bring it on. Wishing you happy days, Anne.

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Anne Goodwin
26/12/2020 02:46:02 pm

Yeah, it is quite odd bestowing good wishes on people regarding things totally outside our control. A question for philosophers, I think.
I think normality's going to be a long time coming, but we muddle on!

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Jeanne Lombardo link
22/12/2020 02:26:09 pm

I so enjoyed reading this! Between the news of the lockdown in London and the latest chart in the NY Times showing the rate of infection in the US compared to other Western nations, I'm thinking the decline of global Anglo influence isn't happening fast enough. Like you, Anne, on the home front we have eschewed the holidays almost entirely....can't say I miss it. At the same time, I watch with a huge dispirited sigh the obstinate attempt of family members and neighbors to ignore the pandemic and carry on as socially required in certain dominant circles of our society... just last Saturday I left my house to find about thirty jolly folks lined up on either side of my street dressed in Christmas garb (even one fully suited Santa) shouting the usual scripted greetings at drivers-by with nary a mask in sight. And one brother who just tested positive was crowing about how the virus had not slowed HIM down when it came to going to church, meeting friends for breakfast, and seeing the grandkids. Oh and not to mention the ongoing attempt at a coup here in the land of the free! So, here we are...your message could not have been more welcome! The only balm for this insanity that surrounds us is the sure knowledge that there are others out there resist. Happy Solstice!

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Anne Goodwin
26/12/2020 02:57:05 pm

Lovely to see you here, as usual, Jeanne, and so glad my post helped. I'm sometimes a little anxious about my injections of humbug when people genuinely do enjoy this season.

Despite our bumbling prime minister, the antimaskers and antivaxers are a little more subdued over here, I think. And at least our great leader did that public health ahead of his own ego, albeit belatedly.

Hope your POTUS doesn't electrocute too many more people before the regime changes in January. Can't happen soon enough.

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